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[sylviaelaine143]

My boyfriend and I have a fairly new relationship. We are struggling to get through his deployment because sometimes I am not sure if it is the right thing to do to stay together. We love each toher but still have so much to learn about each other...Help?

[proud_army_girlfriend32]

Hi how are you, i am going though the same thing as you are right now. my boyfriend and i are in a somewhat new relationship. we have been talking for a while but it just got serious. i love him and i know without a doubt he loves me, but it does get hard sometimes. All that is keeping me going is his love for me and prayer. without either of those i dont know if i could do it either. i dont know if i helped any but if you would like to write back i will be willing to help in anyway i can...

Ashley!

[firemansnewwife]

ive never been in that kind of sircumstance but i do know that true love will make ith through anything i married a fireman and there are many lonely nights when he has to go save lifes. my mom and dad had the same thing hapen as u guys they dated a while and he got deployed. when he got back they got engaged. he got sent to another state. came back and they have been married close to 30 years now.. just remember girls that those boys are serving our country and just cause your lonely doesent mean that you dont need them cause they definately need you they are scared and lonely and need some one to wont to come home to(listen to that song by john michael mont gomery about the solder)they look forward to comen back to be with u and there families. I hope all goes well and i will pray fore u and your men. remember only god an dthe power of love will bring them home..

[proud_army_girlfriend32]

You dont know how much that meant to me.. i appreciate you taking the time to write me... i got to talk to him tonight and he was talking about coming home in 40 days. i cannot wait. He also said he had something to ask me so we will see. i will keep you updated. and think you again so much.. keep us in your prayers.

Ashley

[Left at Home]

Mine and my boyfriends relationship was one day old before he had to leave to go to MAPS. I Kid you not. Its been hard uncovering new feelings and being away from him. When he left we didnt know what we wanted to do, friends, more? But we promised to write and from there here we are. Each letter and 3-10 min phone call we get I love him a little more. He gets to come home in 15 days!!!!! We've been counting down since like day 45. :D Its hard but exicting and getting on here, reading that others are going thru the same stuff, really helps. Im praying for lots more people now. A whole platoon and all their family and girlfriends and now, all my girls on here. Best wishes to all of you.
Chrys

[inunez]

i know exactly how u feel, my bf and i were just starting our relationship (past feb) he joined in september of 05 and likewise, we've been having our little ups and down trying to stay strong for each other, all i can tell u is to take each day at a time and ull notice how fast time passes by....and yeah i couldnt agree more with the previous person's comment, now we're not only praying for our marine out there, now its their platoon and every marine in general along with their families and loved ones.....take care and hold strong...semper fidelis

[lovemysoldier06]

my boyfriend and i have been together for about 3 months.. hes stationed 7000 miles away, getting deployed in 2 days... gonna be gone for about 18 months..

its hard.. we've broken up twice... he cant talk about things.. i wanted him to... he thought itd be better without me but then when we werent together, he realized he couldnt do it alone..

the military is tough... but if you love your soldier, you can get through it..

im trying so so hard.

[proud_army_girlfriend32]

Hey i understand what you are going through. me and my boyfriend have only been together officially for about 3 months. we ave been talk for even longer. when we first started talking it was nothing serious just a how are you everynow and agan. but then letters started more and more, i did not think that i could do the whole military girlfriend thing, so i did not, i told him i could not live with him being so far away. but after a little while i relized i could not ive with out him(meaning knowing that he would come home to me) i never aw myself in this place but know that i am i never want to live with out it.. i love him so much and i dont even know how it happened.. he tells me that it just came softly. and it is true. for a little while it will be hard to talk about things but with time and alot of love it will come around...


Praying for you all...

Ashley