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LokIto'zWiFeY
06-26-2006, 01:27 PM
Im pregnant and im 16 years old and im havin a baby boy but idk if i should have my son plz tell what do u think bout this?
hotmomma18
06-27-2006, 12:48 PM
I am 18 and just found out im pregnant. I love the feeling of knowing there is going to be another me in the world I thiknk you should keep it. It is going to be hard but if you need my help let me know bronzereject1987@hotmail.com or check out my myspace www.myspace.com/88797866 please and message me
tocuteforyou2583
07-07-2006, 01:41 PM
i think u should keep your baby b/c you'll be bringing in another life and it might be hard but when your older you'll be thankful u kept your baby
Ch0colatE
08-18-2006, 09:14 PM
kepp ur babies.Wifey dont you think ur too young to have a baby?Anywayz good luck
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sexybitch22
08-19-2006, 06:14 AM
hey hey i think you should keep your baby u are lucky not to make me sound like a whore or anything but i have alwayz wanted a baby boi wen i dated my boyfriend for a long time he got me pregnet and i wanted to keep it and it was a boy n my mom made me get rid of it and i was heartbroken so dnt blow your chance keep him....
aalorah james
08-19-2006, 05:00 PM
Im pregnant and im 16 years old and im havin a baby boy but idk if i should have my son plz tell what do u think bout this?
i think you should keep ur baby i now u feel like u cant handle it but later on in life ur going to regret it if u dont keep it i think you will be very happy later on with ur child every child deserves to see life.
bubblegum_rokstR92
08-19-2006, 09:25 PM
THATS EXCELLENT THAT u r pregnant keep ur lil bag of joy bcoz ur not a murderer r u that sounds harsh but thats what abortion is
pretty_baby
08-20-2006, 05:52 PM
i think u should keep ur baby!!! i have 2 friends who have gotten pregnant @ young ages! one kept her baby and the other decided that a baby wasnt something she wanted, the one who got rid of her child has never been the same since! everytime she sees a baby that would be the same age as the one she got rid of she crys!!! she feels like there is something missing in her life! the girl who kept her child has never been happier! she has gone through some hard times but she has gotten through them with the help of her loved ones!! this may sound horrible but dont be a muderer cuz thats wut abortion is!! keep that bunndle of joy!! u wont regret it!
Mommy2006
09-08-2006, 06:28 PM
I'm 16 years old and I'm pregnant with a baby boy too! I really do think you should keep him.. It may seem like its gonna be hard but you can get through it! That child deserves a chance at life.. Please don't take that away from him.. You really should keep him.. Once he's here you'll be glad you kept him.. Just the joy of having a baby puts a smile on anyones face..
Threejarr
09-14-2006, 10:32 PM
Everyone here is assuming that is this girl does not keep her baby that it means she is going to abort it.
Has anyone thought that she might go through with the pregnancy and give her baby up for adoption?
Also everyone who has responded is also young. Raising a child, regardless of your age is a very big responsibility and can be very hard. She has to follow her heart and if she feels she is not ready to be a mother than no one can tell her to keep it.
She will be making sacrafices if she has the baby and keeps it ~ if that is her choice then she will need a good support system. She has got to know people are there for her. She should be allowed to enjoy her teen years and at the same time not shuck her maternal responsabilities.
It is easy to say "keep it" but you have to really sit down and put on paper the pro's and con's of the decision as to whether or not to keep the baby.
There are now open adoptions where she will always know where her son is and the adopted family can send her updated photos and when he is older the two of them can meet. Again that is way down the road, but that is what I mean by weight the pros and cons. Don't be so quick to tell her to keep the baby. Without support systems in place she could become very resentful of that baby and in the long run is that a good thing?
So for all you young girls out there, especially the ones who do want a baby,and are not married, remember, a baby is not a substitue for the love you are seeking. You have to love that baby first and then the baby learns to love you. You have to give 100% of yourself to that baby. You will have to make a lot of sacrifices. So as a mother of two grown daughters, all I have to say is think first, and for those who like this girl don't know what to do, follow your heart and make sure you have family and friends who will support you emotionally.
Renee
lyndajean
09-21-2006, 08:49 PM
look it might seem hard but.... keep him because years from he will thank you for giving him life. or you can not keep him and suffer the burden for the rest of you're life.]
AnsleyMichelle
10-01-2006, 07:35 AM
i no you think this is going 2 be really hard but you will like it i have a friend and she is 12 and haveing twins in a cupple weeks so it will be worth it when you see the baby so give it a chance and you will be ok and good luck with your baby
narcissm
10-09-2006, 03:38 AM
THATS EXCELLENT THAT u r pregnant keep ur lil bag of joy bcoz ur not a murderer r u that sounds harsh but thats what abortion is
abortion isnt murder, it depends on the circumstances. what if you were raped and the random guy that raped you got you pregnant..you dont know what diseases he could have had and how the baby will turn out....the chances are you'd take the opertunity to have an abortion.
imagine if someone wasnt mentaly fit to have a child and was encouraged to have a baby and killed it.
all im saying is that you should think before postign about abortions being wrong. i guess everyone can have an opinion but just remember there are some impressionable people out there and they may keep a baby just because people like you call them murderers.
donna 247
10-23-2006, 01:50 PM
hi ya its how you feel about it i had my son at 16 and it was the best thing that has ever happed to me. what make you say should i have him you sould no in your hart what you want not what any one says you should do:o :o ]
x107x
10-29-2006, 12:22 AM
I agree with donna.
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