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puzzy_2_phat
04-25-2006, 10:49 AM
hi i have problems with my boi friend i dont know what to do he insist on us having sex all of the time he always complain when i say no! i love him so much but i just dont know what to do all of my homegurls keep tellin me he aint the one and that i should leave him but i care for him so much what should i do!!!!!!!!!!!
$$Lauren$$
04-25-2006, 11:02 AM
hun, if all he wants is sex, and doesn't let up when you say no. Dump him. A man should respect the fact that you aren't going to be willing to give it to him all the time. I understand that you might love him, but if he's treating you like that he isn't the one for you and he can't love you.
Listen to your friends, they know best. They can see things that you choose to overlook. It's something we all do, thats why we need our friends. They keep us honest with ourselves.
Don't stay with a man who can't respect your choices.
lilmamachica
04-25-2006, 12:57 PM
yea i agree w/ lauren ... if a guy only wants sex all the time ... and u tell him no and he gets mad about it .. he isnt rite for you because he shud respect your decisions :)
~*~ DANIELLE ~*~
lilma02
04-26-2006, 05:32 PM
so yea ne wayz im nu hurr but i think dat dey is rite n u should dump him cuz dats sum bull n yea u dont need dat
toddyloverxox
05-27-2006, 11:53 AM
Dnt worry bbz!
I have the same problems with boyz and when i say no he ends up all ova me, last time i dumped him but i got anotha 1 just lyk him. Im thinkin bout finishing this one.
The other day he tryed getting me drunk so he could get me in bed.
Omg afta this 1 im not riskin it dnt worry bout it hes just desperate lyk myn
Im only 17 n he tryed gettin me drunk
4get bout the man, their worthless.
~~Paige~~:)
Sweetpea17
06-14-2006, 01:57 PM
Dump him because hes not worth it.
NETRA
06-15-2006, 06:09 PM
girl fuck him, just keep saying no.
Miss Smarty
06-19-2006, 08:06 AM
I agree wit lauren.......either he understands what u says or he ain't worth u'r precise time it's 1 thing 2 say no and it's another thing when u have all that pressure on u to keep decidin if u should.......he ain't worth yo time so it'z sho time ta go. i wish u da best of luck and hope u find da rite man who fulfills u'r every need, and best requirements.
rascalflattsluvr613
07-01-2006, 09:00 PM
Dnt worry bbz!
I have the same problems with boyz and when i say no he ends up all ova me, last time i dumped him but i got anotha 1 just lyk him. Im thinkin bout finishing this one.
The other day he tryed getting me drunk so he could get me in bed.
Omg afta this 1 im not riskin it dnt worry bout it hes just desperate lyk myn
Im only 17 n he tryed gettin me drunk
4get bout the man, their worthless.
~~Paige~~:)i like a guy but he he barely notices me and when one does i just say "your wierd " and walk away what do i do :confused:
dixiechick13
07-03-2006, 01:12 AM
look if he's only interested in sex then he's not interested in you
lenae3
07-07-2006, 10:06 AM
OK well i'm 13 and so is my boyfriend and I'm really serious about him. We made out a couple months ago and he keeps saying that he wants to do more? What else is ther besides sex? And one more thing he says he's phycic? Could that be possible? I mean I really think he is sometimes, but could he really?
cheerhottie25
07-08-2006, 07:28 PM
grl, I broke up with my first boyfriend because he was ONLY dating me for sex. if I were, you, I'd say screw him, if he can't respect the fact that you don't want to screw him, then obviously he doesn't deserve you. dump him before things get to bad.
rellyrel
07-09-2006, 05:15 PM
gurl leave em alone you dont need him as much as he needs you hes gonna realize what he has when its gone n hes gonna un bak trust me
blueEyes4Life92
07-20-2006, 09:04 PM
I have had sex with my boyfriend about 3 or 4 times in the past 3 months, and my ex I had talked to him and he found out I did. He has been calling me a whore and a slut. I don't know what to do, is he mad cause I didn't do it with him or am I really one? Please help me I am so worried.
chic*chica908
07-22-2006, 09:14 PM
I have had sex with my boyfriend about 3 or 4 times in the past 3 months, and my ex I had talked to him and he found out I did. He has been calling me a whore and a slut. I don't know what to do, is he mad cause I didn't do it with him or am I really one? Please help me I am so worried.
Girl, forget your ex, its what happening now that you need to ficus on. So what if he's jealous. Your only a slut or a whore if you let ur ex make you one, and also ask ur bf now, how ur ex found out, that might help you out too. Your probally right, he might be made cuz you didnt give it up to him. I all for you girl, so like I said screw your ex if all he want to call you names.
bajan_beauty93
07-31-2006, 10:32 PM
i agree with the above.you want a man who likes you for ur other talents.someone who cares about other stuff than sex..someone to hold you wen ur scared or walk you home..and also have consveration with.thats how i found the perfect man for me.his name iz oscar, and hedoes all of the above that i wrote.and iz super cute!lolthanx 4 listeningS:)
nolans_gurl<3
08-24-2006, 08:56 PM
i think that if he trully cared about you alot he would understand that you arnt ready...and he would accept it..and would wait till you are
LilMiZsMiChelle
09-08-2006, 05:11 PM
yoo on tha reall mama if all he wants is that..then he aint reall cuz once u give it up u aint neva gona get it back and ur repp iz gonna go down... trust me i've been through these problemz... u needa find sum 1 new cuz if he was tha ryt one he wooda neva ask u 2 fuck u get me...!! but hes messed up if thats all he wants.... u needa get sum str8 with him that u dont want 2 and idk ... if ur not like dat but yyeah... u needa say something to get to him... cuz he finez soo otha gurl he might juss drop u n aheart beat soo juss keep wat u got and dont give it up!!! iight
much luv if u need anyotha help juss IM me on AIM lilshorty61993 im here... peace
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