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hannah4
12-22-2006, 07:24 AM
I have been going with this guy....for the past two years..

He has been email buddies with this girl he was .."Kind of, sort a dating but there was nothing physical. Just hung out together." She met another guy online three years ago. She sold her house and moves out to Arizona with a guy that is retired and wanted top pull up stakes. She went with him...

Three years later...she is coming back. All this time she has been emailing AND calling the guy I am seeing. And pouring out her heart and soul on the loss of the love she had for the guy she is leaving... I am not the jealous type. So I didn’t think anything about UNTIL NOW>>

He said they used to take walks in the park, go to the movies and hung out. He has been reminiscing lately about those times before I was around.

I asked if she wants to pick up where they left off. if he is willing let her "HANG OUT" again...he said she is his friend and if she needs a shoulder to cry on, she is on anti depressants and said she had fibromialgia.. ..he was willing to let her come into his life again... I told him she may want to use him as a stepping stone until she can find someone else...and said that was not going to happen. but it would be nice to see her again...

He recently lost his job and took another one that is opposite my hours. We go out when we can...

Now she is coming back and has NO JOB...and sounds like she does not want one...I see that she is going to cling on to him for support....

And we will be drifting apart .....

victoria4
12-22-2006, 07:25 AM
Walk away and let him find out what he wants. Meet other people-detach yourself from the situation -I know it is hard to do. Meet fiends to share your feelings at www.vois.com

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