alexis9
12-16-2006, 09:49 AM
Help please.
Hers my situation. I have met two great guys on here recently. I have gone out a few times with each, and no I have not hide anything from either. They both know that I have still been talking to and went out with the other.
Gentleman #1 last year ended a 16 year marriage to his high school sweetheart. States that he has never had a relationship with anyone but her. At the end of our first date he simply asked me "Do not break my heart". This guy is great we have so much in common but the fact that this is the first relationship after such a long marriage worries me.
Gentleman #2 is great also. He has never been married but ended a long term relationship at the beginning of this year. This guy and I have a lot of shared interests also. Just by a few comments I cant tell how serious of a relationship he is looking for and nor will he come out and say what he’s looking for relationship wise.
Both guys are great and they both understand that my child is the most important thing. They accept that my schedule is limited at times due to childcare arrangements.
I just feel bad that I have reservations about both and cant decide what my next step should be. The fact that both enjoy the same hobbies as me and my child is wonderful. They both enjoy doing family activates (or claim to since neither has met my child yet).
Maybe my confusion means that I’m not ready for a relationship. Help any advice anyone wants to offer??
Hers my situation. I have met two great guys on here recently. I have gone out a few times with each, and no I have not hide anything from either. They both know that I have still been talking to and went out with the other.
Gentleman #1 last year ended a 16 year marriage to his high school sweetheart. States that he has never had a relationship with anyone but her. At the end of our first date he simply asked me "Do not break my heart". This guy is great we have so much in common but the fact that this is the first relationship after such a long marriage worries me.
Gentleman #2 is great also. He has never been married but ended a long term relationship at the beginning of this year. This guy and I have a lot of shared interests also. Just by a few comments I cant tell how serious of a relationship he is looking for and nor will he come out and say what he’s looking for relationship wise.
Both guys are great and they both understand that my child is the most important thing. They accept that my schedule is limited at times due to childcare arrangements.
I just feel bad that I have reservations about both and cant decide what my next step should be. The fact that both enjoy the same hobbies as me and my child is wonderful. They both enjoy doing family activates (or claim to since neither has met my child yet).
Maybe my confusion means that I’m not ready for a relationship. Help any advice anyone wants to offer??